Arguments

Real interpersonal conflicts identified from 10 years of chat history.

Total Arguments

Top Instigator

Swedish Cheese

Started 3 arguments

Most Targeted

Abstractr

Pulled into 2 arguments

Most Arguments Started

Most Targeted

Argument Matrix

Who starts arguments with whom — rows started it, columns were targeted

	Abstractr	wthelly 4/3 buyee	best 4k sea otter	stuff im
highkirkenuinely	1
stuff im		1
Swedish Cheese		1	1	1
wthelly 4/3 buyee	1

Argument Log

All (6)Swedish Cheese (3)wthelly 4/3 buyee (3)stuff im (2)Abstractr (2)highkirkenuinely (1)best 4k sea otter (1)

Jan 31, 2025 · #rawdogging-and-moistmaxxing9/10

Swedish Cheese → stuff im

Swedish Cheese expresses frustration over being misunderstood and condescended to during a discussion about AP MF's damage.

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Swedish Cheese: That's only half the reason

Swedish Cheese: You still have your ult as ap mf

Swedish Cheese: You trade autos for more E dmg

Swedish Cheese: You're not trading away your Q dmg autos and ult dmg just to have better E

Swedish Cheese: The math just isn't there

Swedish Cheese: I don't know why I bother typing to you guys when you never think about what I'm saying

Swedish Cheese: I'm done

Swedish Cheese: I refuse to justify myself to you

highkirkenuinely: :ICANT:

stuff im: why are you so pressed

stuff im: is it cause i typed yes hank

stuff im: after no leo

Swedish Cheese: That triggered it

best 4k sea otter: you got the cast of culinary class wars on your team

Swedish Cheese: But I've complained about this at least twice before

best 4k sea otter: :Wokege:

Swedish Cheese: I fucking despise when I'm typing a legit argument and you meme on me

stuff im: how is that meming on you

stuff im: im just giving back the same energy

stuff im: seems condescending as fuck

stuff im: i cant even give it back

stuff im: ?

Swedish Cheese: ok I'll give you that

Swedish Cheese: it was condescending

Swedish Cheese: But like

Swedish Cheese: Ok

Swedish Cheese: It was condescending

Swedish Cheese: but I am right here

wthelly 4/3 buyee: :ICANT:

Swedish Cheese: Like you can't tell me at least half of AP MF's dmg isn't her ult

wthelly 4/3 buyee: If u ever go ap mf ur griefing

Swedish Cheese: actually you know what

Swedish Cheese: it wasn't even condescending

wthelly 4/3 buyee: I'm convinced

Swedish Cheese: Think about this irl

Swedish Cheese: If I'm talking directly to you

Swedish Cheese: I tell you

Swedish Cheese: AP MF ult is phys

Swedish Cheese: do not build void

Swedish Cheese: and you tell me

Swedish Cheese: yeah but you play it for the E

stuff im: am i wrong

Swedish Cheese: And I say no leo

Swedish Cheese: her ult still does phys dmg

Swedish Cheese: when you repeat back what I said

Swedish Cheese: It wasn't originally condescending

Swedish Cheese: But now I feel like I'm being mocked

Swedish Cheese: You think you're giving back the same energy

Swedish Cheese: But you're not

Swedish Cheese: I'm exasperated

Swedish Cheese: Like that's the word I'm looking for

Swedish Cheese: I started off exasperated

Swedish Cheese: but then you made it condescending

Swedish Cheese: and that makes me actually pissed

Swedish Cheese: anyways this isn't the first time this has happened

Swedish Cheese: I need a break from you guys

Swedish Cheese: add me in 2 months

stuff im: no

stuff im: u cant just do that

stuff im: if u leave i dont want to see u again

stuff im: like ever

stuff im: what the fuck

Jun 1, 2022 · #11nov2021-15aug20248/10

Swedish Cheese → wthelly 4/3 buyee

Swedish Cheese accuses wthelly 4/3 buyee of being toxic while defending their own stance on a game-related argument.

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Swedish Cheese: here's my toxic response

Swedish Cheese: i wasn't arguing, I was establishing facts that ended up being irrelevant, but apparently you lack reading comprehension

Swedish Cheese: we established that

Swedish Cheese: that's not what I said and michael knew it

Swedish Cheese: stop using nerd like it's a bad thing

Swedish Cheese: I said like 7-8 times that qe is better already

Swedish Cheese: and yes

Swedish Cheese: I am fuming

Swedish Cheese: you know what

Swedish Cheese: no

Swedish Cheese: I'm not the toxic one

Swedish Cheese: you are

wthelly 4/3 buyee: KEKW

wthelly 4/3 buyee: Who said ur toxic

wthelly 4/3 buyee: I never say nerd like it's a bad thing

wthelly 4/3 buyee: It's funny

wthelly 4/3 buyee: I guarantee I know more random shit about games and numbers than you so I'm a bigger nerd

Mar 4, 2018 · #20nov2015-06nov20198/10

wthelly 4/3 buyee → Abstractr

wthelly 4/3 buyee argues that their negative arguing style is effective, while Abstractr prefers not to engage in spiteful arguments.

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wthelly 4/3 buyee: JAX BAN

wthelly 4/3 buyee: SAVEDD

wthelly 4/3 buyee: xayah rakan

wthelly 4/3 buyee: not like this

wthelly 4/3 buyee: show me what u got

Abstractr: the way you argue is so negative tho like ive seen it for 7 years now so im used to it but if u talk like that to random people they are just going to

highkirkenuinely: sion vs ornn

highkirkenuinely: LOL

highkirkenuinely: ResidentSleeper

wthelly 4/3 buyee: thats how i talk to u cuz i know ur stubborn

wthelly 4/3 buyee: also leo

wthelly 4/3 buyee: also im pushing u to actually provide evidence for once

Abstractr: jake irl back

highkirkenuinely: wait by the way

highkirkenuinely: 3 points q into e max

wthelly 4/3 buyee: since u never fight back

highkirkenuinely: is the pro standard

highkirkenuinely: for wave clear

highkirkenuinely: lol

wthelly 4/3 buyee: yes

wthelly 4/3 buyee: unless against strong enemy laner

wthelly 4/3 buyee: like taliyah

wthelly 4/3 buyee: that knows how to pressure

Abstractr: i dont argue back cause i dont want to turn into spiteful person

highkirkenuinely: but sometimes you need the magic shield so you go q max for better trading

wthelly 4/3 buyee: its not spiteful

Abstractr: and theres no point in arguing

highkirkenuinely: but most of the kass matchups are bad

wthelly 4/3 buyee: its just two opposing opinions

highkirkenuinely: and he loses anyways

Abstractr: wtf this nigag

wthelly 4/3 buyee: how is proving your point

Abstractr: orders so much food

wthelly 4/3 buyee: spiteful

Abstractr: im saying the way you type makes you seem like a spiteful person

Abstractr: and i dont want to argue the same way

Abstractr: and also be spiteful towards my friends

wthelly 4/3 buyee: u dont argue at all

wthelly 4/3 buyee: u dont have to argue agressively

wthelly 4/3 buyee: but it does give you the psychological advantage

wthelly 4/3 buyee: since u can steer the argument

Abstractr: wtf is that rice bowl

Abstractr: chicken stock and wasabi

Abstractr: WutFace

Abstractr: JUST SEMEN

Abstractr: LOL

wthelly 4/3 buyee: but ive been doing it subconsciously since it does provoke people to start 1v1ing me

Abstractr: :owoC: :owoC: :owoC: :owoC:

slop: :owoD:

wthelly 4/3 buyee: nice try

Abstractr: hehe

highkirkenuinely: :owoE:

wthelly 4/3 buyee: blossom

slop: no u dingus

wthelly 4/3 buyee: trash

slop: its animals

slop: cmonBruh

highkirkenuinely: wtf

Abstractr: :owoNO:

highkirkenuinely: did u just call me a dingus

slop: uh

slop: no

Abstractr: brian always stealing my words

Abstractr: first it was fudge

Abstractr: now its dingus

Abstractr: keep it going brian

highkirkenuinely: lol

wthelly 4/3 buyee: ??????

slop: nono

highkirkenuinely: coming brian

Abstractr: ill come up with a new word

slop: dingus is my word

highkirkenuinely: ur so original

wthelly 4/3 buyee: u think u own dingus

Abstractr: wtf

Abstractr: dingus

highkirkenuinely: u think u can just steal a catchphrase like that?

Abstractr: :owoHANDS: :owoHANDS: :owoHANDS: :owoHANDS:

highkirkenuinely: mine is the

slop: u trying to start a fight kirk

Jun 25, 2016 · #20nov2015-06nov20198/10

highkirkenuinely → Abstractr

highkirkenuinely and Abstractr argue about being rude to each other, with Abstractr calling out highkirkenuinely's behavior.

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highkirkenuinely: but idc

Abstractr: why are you talking about dfo

highkirkenuinely: about that

Abstractr: cause ur just being a dick for being a dick

highkirkenuinely: you realize that you are doing the exact same thing

Abstractr: how would you like it if i just told you to stfu

highkirkenuinely: idk why you being a hippo

highkirkenuinely: you do that all the time

highkirkenuinely: and you call us gay

Abstractr: for something you like

highkirkenuinely: all the time

highkirkenuinely: so stfu

highkirkenuinely: you have no right

highkirkenuinely: to say that

highkirkenuinely: and you fart into your mic all the time

highkirkenuinely: it's like the same thing

highkirkenuinely: 8)

highkirkenuinely: so can we just stop now

Mar 27, 2022 · #11nov2021-15aug20247/10

Swedish Cheese → best 4k sea otter

Swedish Cheese confronts best 4k sea otter about their actions in a game, suggesting they are the more toxic player.

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best 4k sea otter: it's not like it made a difference

Swedish Cheese: I do not have enough information from your telling of the situation

best 4k sea otter: he was worth nothing

Swedish Cheese: For why you would intentionally kill your teammate for 25g

best 4k sea otter: i have my reasons

Swedish Cheese: You sound like the toxic one here michael

best 4k sea otter: idk what you mean

best 4k sea otter: 🙂

Swedish Cheese: Since you have not defended yourself adequately

Swedish Cheese: I'm gonna conclude that you're the bigger asshole between you and the double sheen ezreal

best 4k sea otter: i don't think that means i deserve to be called a mid player

best 4k sea otter: 😠

best 4k sea otter: it's not a matter of being toxic

best 4k sea otter: it's a matter of did i deserve that remark from this person

best 4k sea otter: and i say i don't :Madge:

best 4k sea otter: in my defense

best 4k sea otter: the shaco was literally 1 auto away from dying

best 4k sea otter: so i had a 100% chance to get paid

best 4k sea otter: :KEKW:

Feb 18, 2018 · #20nov2015-06nov20197/10

stuff im → wthelly 4/3 buyee

stuff im insists that wthelly 4/3 buyee's profile picture implies he likes the anime art, while wthelly 4/3 buyee argues that different artists can depict the same character differently.

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stuff im: i remember it clearly

wthelly 4/3 buyee: how about u read the context

wthelly 4/3 buyee: instead of his mind

stuff im: u were typing

stuff im: as u watched

slop: the art was not trash DansGame

wthelly 4/3 buyee: how does him saying the anime art is trash

wthelly 4/3 buyee: have to do with his profile pic

stuff im: it implies that he lies the art

stuff im: since he has it as a picture

wthelly 4/3 buyee: no?

wthelly 4/3 buyee: same character drawn by diff people

stuff im: yes?

wthelly 4/3 buyee: is not the same art

best 4k sea otter: maybe?

wthelly 4/3 buyee: hello

stuff im: ?!?!!?!!?

Abstractr: im going to watch

Abstractr: ep 1

Abstractr: see when i said that

wthelly 4/3 buyee: do u like steves drawing of rem?

wthelly 4/3 buyee: do u like any drawing of rem?

Abstractr: i like it

best 4k sea otter: pretty good

wthelly 4/3 buyee: BrokeBack

best 4k sea otter: i give it

Abstractr: im hella good

stuff im: fuck you bitch

best 4k sea otter: 1 big toblerone

best 4k sea otter: out of 10

slop: chisai bitch

wthelly 4/3 buyee: wheres ur argument

wthelly 4/3 buyee: SORE WA

wthelly 4/3 buyee: CHIGAU YO

stuff im: the artist are drawing

best 4k sea otter: woah woah woah

wthelly 4/3 buyee: LITTTLE BICH

stuff im: the same character

best 4k sea otter: calm down instigator

slop: no

best 4k sea otter: you can't say stuff like that

slop: u chisai bitch

wthelly 4/3 buyee: k

best 4k sea otter: you unko

wthelly 4/3 buyee: i guess if i like steves rem

best 4k sea otter: bich

wthelly 4/3 buyee: i like all rems

Abstractr: guys it doesnt matter

wthelly 4/3 buyee: steve

wthelly 4/3 buyee: ur an artist

Abstractr: its fkin a picture

Abstractr: o ya

Abstractr: its this scen

best 4k sea otter: where was that argument

wthelly 4/3 buyee: have u thought about majoring in art

Abstractr: that i said

wthelly 4/3 buyee: argument still MIA

wthelly 4/3 buyee: instigator

wthelly 4/3 buyee: WHERE ARE U

slop: yello

best 4k sea otter: when you made me an autist

Abstractr: i think with the part

stuff im: would u have a picture

stuff im: of a girl

stuff im: from an anime u dont like

Abstractr: when you see teammembers in the same place

Abstractr: for the first itme

wthelly 4/3 buyee: u know how many arts

wthelly 4/3 buyee: in fgo are shit

stuff im: if ya

stuff im: then youre a shallow little bitch

wthelly 4/3 buyee: but have good fana rt

best 4k sea otter: all of them

best 4k sea otter: Keepo

slop: hey take that back

Swedish Cheese: do we have

Swedish Cheese: a terraria team

best 4k sea otter: sometimes i stare at my prized picture

Swedish Cheese: @RisingTaco

best 4k sea otter: of school days